Users should use BOTH: Below 15m/s/s as the golden rule, and look at clipping. Like I said:
Yes, I agree it is challenging that is why I wrote section1. If you can not solve the challenges, I suggest you find help to do it.
Again section 1. It can be very effective if it is tuned. A vibration damper has a certain elasticity that must have a certain value depending on the mass, and the frequencies you need to dampen.
If that elasticity is incorrect it might amplify the oscillations it is meant to dampen. And so be VERY counterproductive. Again if you can not fix it, get help, there are people that can fix it for you.