From a discussion with @rmackay9 a few months back:
You have RELAY_PIN2=54, which explains why there is a prearm warning regarding SERVO13.
I think you should try the following:
RELAY_PIN=55
RELAY_PIN2=-1
SERVO13_FUNCTION=0
SERVO14_FUNCTION=-1
SERVO_GPIO_MASK=0
EDIT: don’t mess with SERVO1-SERVO4 - I made an error in my previous.
My suspicion is that your incongruous parameter assignments have disrupted GPIO handling in firmware.
If unexpected behavior continues, raise an issue and reference this PR.